7 Things Only Women With Endometriosis Will Understand


Endometriosis is a condition that most women have heard of, yet few truly understand the implications of the disease. It often shrugged off, dismissed and belittled with women spending years trying to get diagnosed and treated.

Unsolicited advice seems to be part of the package when it comes to having endometriosis — everyone will have an opinion on what will “cure” you. If you’ve lived with endo for years or have recently been diagnosed,  you’ll know the following things to be true, highlighted by prevention.com.

MORE: Six possible causes of endometriosis.

Endometriosis pain is not a normal part of womanhood. 
Many young girls and women are dismissed by doctors for years, told that their endo pain is just a normal part of being female, something every woman experiences. But that’s just not true! Endometriosis pain is not like normal period pains where a hot water bottle and a couple of Tylenol will do the trick. In fact, it doesn’t only appear during that time of the month. Women can experience pain during sex, pain going to the bathroom, and pain before and after periods.

Getting pregnant is not a cure. 
While many women find that pregnancy reduces their endometriosis pain — higher levels of progesterone help to offset the effects of estrogen — the endo pain will return after delivery.

Endometriosis can also make it incredibly difficult to get pregnant in the first place.

Neither is a hysterectomy. 
A hysterectomy should be considered a last resort for women with endometriosis, and should only be considered after they’re finished having children. While it will lessen the pain associated with the disease, it won’t cure the pain caused by tissue that has grown outside of the uterus.

MORE: How serious is endometriosis?

Surgeries will need to be performed often. 
The gold standard of care for endometriosis is excision by a specialist surgeon, but again this isn’t a cure. A surgeon can remove unwanted tissue but it will grow back. Many women choose hormonal treatment like a contraception pill to avoid having periods, which lessens the risk of uterine tissue attaching to other parts of the body.

Many women will have more than one surgery to remove unwanted tissue. Some severe cases will require surgery every couple of years.

It’s OK to get a second, third, fourth doctor’s opinion. 
Sometimes patients need to seek out other doctors if they’re struggling with undiagnosed symptoms. Endometriosis may not appear on a scan and surgery is often the only way to confirm if a woman has the disease. Speaking to others with endo may help women find a sympathetic doctor who’s willing send them to a specialist.

Pain can be unpredictable. 
It’s normal to be symptom-free for a few months, only for the endo pain to return with a bang, usually during some big plans! Make sure to always carry an emergency kit of sanitary products, pain killers, wet wipes, and spare underwear.

Take care of your body. 
Diet and exercise won’t cure endometriosis but it can make the symptoms more bearable. Get plenty of rest and eat a diet high in fiber, fruit and vegetables, nuts, whole grains and low-fat protein. Some women find that eliminating certain foods, like gluten or dairy, makes them feel better, so experiment with food groups to see if it has any effect on your endo symptoms.

Exercise when you feel well, but rest up when you’re experiencing a flare, as excessive exercise can cause heavy bleeding.

MORE: Eliminating PCBs from your diet if you have endometriosis 

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  1. I am a retired acupuncturist and pharmacist. I have a theory about endometriosis that I would like to share with you. I have developed a product that does stop dysmenorrhea within 5 minutes and uses only pressure on a specific area on the leg between the ankle and knee. According to the Mayo Clinic, dysmenorrhea is due to a lack of blood to the uterus. I feel there is an association between dysmenorrhea and endometriosis, especially during the first couple of days. My device does what it does and as quickly as it does because it reduces the intensity of uterine contractions, which returns blood flow to uterus and the pain goes away. When properly applied, it has never failed.

  2. Kelly says:

    I am on my 5th surgery for endometriosis. The most recent was excision of all the tissue to only continue 6 months later with all of the original problems. I am now told that the problems that I am experiencing are due to Fibromyalgia and colitis. I don’t think that it is colitis, I think that it is the endometriosis on the rectum that is giving the impression of colitis. I say this because endometriosis was found and removed off of my colon twice. Most doctors ignore the fact that one has endometriosis. They are always trying to find another reason for the pain. I have been given anti depressant medication for the inability to sleep at night. When I have explained that it is not the depression or anxiety that keeps me awake, that it is the pain from the endometriosis that keeps me awake. I have chronic swelling in both my hips and I have been asked from my doctor if I was sure that it wasn’t my imagination that my hips were swollen. She explained to me that sometimes things will appear to be swollen if they cause pain. My hips swell to a point where I am unable to wear fitted pants. There is no end to this disease. I have been living with this illness for 30years now. I will you all well.Good luck.

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